i am not shutting bofa down and i am not handing it over to anyone else at the moment but i am looking for a co-admin. if you're leaving because you're worried about instability, i promise you, the site's not going anywhere, even if i may.
i am also sorry about the drama but i'm just sick of waking up to nasty toots in my TL popping shit about me from people who are nice to me to my face.
anyway, if you're committed bofamily, have linux skills – even better if you're a rubyist – and you want to help run this thing, let me know. i'd also like to bring on a couple more moderators so that i can extricate myself from that aspect of things and put a firewall between me and the drama.