One of the best lessons I think for everyone to learn is the lesson of Intent vs. Impact.
The impact of your words might be different than what you intended.
It doesn't matter what you intended, as the impact is what reached the other party
Even if you meant well, if you hurt someone with your words or actions, apologize anyways. It doesn't matter your intent, you hurt someone.
it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means there was a communication error, and you should apologize for it
also if your napkin *isn't* sanitary, don't put that shit on your face you nasty boi
call it a "blood pillow" like an adult