been thinking and as much as most of us seem to hate drama and conflicts, it's good that we have them. generally, it brings to the surface topics, individuals and situations we, as a community, have to sort out and establish rules for, especially for dealing with such events in the future. it sucks, and it can be painful, but i see it as necessary, in a way.
the fedi is fairly new and as such, we're kinda making it all up as we go along.