Myasstodon is such a great instance and since opening up to a more general POC instance this week they've been getting a lot of new members, and new members means new costs. This is a great time to give them some support if you can! if not, boost!
radmin of radical.town
I also have a queer-friendly Discord at https://discord.gg/au56KhA
A cool and chill place for cool and chill people.