@red wait, you mean you don't carry around a queer resume detailing your gender and sexuality and complete history of how you got to that point to hand out copies to anyone you meet? how else do you quickly bring every stranger up to speed on your whole entire life and personality??
@NormalPopsicle i should get one of those little laminated cards to hand to straight people so they’ll stop saying horribly awkward things to me
@red oh, I'm sure even then with the help they'd still find a way 😬
I do kinda love the idea that you're suppose to explain to every straight person in detail your whole deal, as if they didn't all only seconds ago start getting use to using the word "gay" respectfully instead of just as a slur' they barely understand the catch-all (that shouldn't have even become a catch all but that's just another sign they haven't even mastered crawling enough to go jogging with the rest of us) so I can't imagine expecting queer folks to give an entire university class rundown of queer theory to every cishet they meet to explain their identities lmao
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